SS. Peter & Paul Parish - Christian Formation Commission

Ministry/Group Name:
Marriage Preparation Ministry

Commission:
Christian Formation

Mission/Purpose:
Married Couples meet with Engaged Couples, one-on-one, for the purpose of better preparing the Engaged Couple for the sacrament of marriage. Relying heavily on the Archdiocesan tool called FOCCUS, the two couples engage in discussion on a broad range of topics, from communication and problem solving to religion and values.

Regular Activities:
Meet with engaged couples to help them prepare for the sacrament of marriage. A married couple interested in this ministry would be provided with a one-day formal training workshop by the Archdiocese. The number of meetings you have with each Engaged Couple varies, but it is typically three two-hour meetings. At SSPP, Married Couples are usually assigned four Engaged Couples per year. A Coordinating Couple provides any support you may need, and tries to ensure that the pace of the ministry is comfortable for you. The 10-12 Married Couples involved in this ministry do gather occasionally to share experiences.

Spiritual Growth/Benefits of Participating in this Ministry:

Married Couples involved in this ministry have expressed great satisfaction which comes from helping the Engaged Couples at an important time in their lives.

The Engaged Couples have consistently given positive feedback on the program, saying the discussions were helpful and appreciated.

The Married Couple's own marriage is nurtured as they witness to the Engaged Couples.

Specific Requirements to Consider if Participating in this Ministry: We are very proud of the contributions of these married couples. Over the years, our parish has developed a fine tradition of serving our Engaged Couples through this ministry. We are always interested in hearing from Married Couples who may be interested in joining us. You do not need to be an expert in marriage, or be a counselor. Most of all, you need to be caring listeners. The Engaged Couple, and the FOCCUS inventory tool, do most of the work.